Welcome back to a new week in the Mom Set Free Bible Study. This week we are focusing on finding freedom in the places that we get stuck.
What are some parenting decisions you’re grappling with in this season?
I do not feel like I am “grappling” with anything at this time. Life is in a beautiful place for us right now and our main focus is on gratitude and faith. However, life is never perfect and there are a few big-to-me decisions that I’ve been trying to work out lately, but I am certainly not grappling over them.
I recently struggled with whether or not we should go through with joining a new co-op for the fall, but after lots of prayer, the decision was a crystal clear no. I was listening to a video of Erika Kirk from one of her Biblical Young Women Leadership Summits and when I heard her say the words “do not trade the spiritual world for the secular,” it felt like God was directly talking to me, answering my prayers through her message. I am absolutely certain we made the right decision.
I am currently having major convictions to get off of government assistance for good. Our large family has been on SNAP for awhile now & it was a God-send when my husband was in his season of unemployment. Knowing I had funds to feed my family kept my strength going to be able to make it through that time. I really improved my cooking skills & learned how to make anything out of nothing. I am grateful for that time & that helping hand. However, after being used as an actual pawn by Democrats in “leverage time” negotiations, I want nothing more to do with it. I will make sure that my children learn from this, from MY mistake, to NEVER accept or support government handouts. I messed up as a mother & I will never, ever put my family in a situation like this again. When you give the government the power to feed you, you also give them the power to starve you. I knew better – my ancestors lived through Holodomor – & I didn’t choose better because of convenience & I learned the consequences of what happens when you do that first hand. I refuse to play these games & let my children be used as “leverage.”
Look at the words below: Cross out* the ones that reflect our parenting when we forget God’s sovereignty and grace. Bold* the words our parenting will be laced with when we remember God’s sovereignty and grace.
Worry – Wonder – Fear – Anger – Grace – Love – Pride – Gentleness – Shame – Humility – Guilt – Compassion
On a scale of 1 to 5, 1 meaning “white knuckles” and 5 being “open handed,” how would you say you parent on most days?
3. I give my children much more freedom than most I have personally witnessed. I try my best to lead my children to feel self-sufficient while still being a safe base for them to return to. I teach them real-life adult skills and trust in their abilities. I will not tolerate disrespect. I will not tolerate harmful behavior. I make my children right their wrongs (for example: returning/paying for stolen items face to face with a verbal and written apology). We have home & school responsibilities that need completed each day, and as long as they are completed I want my kids to spend their days being kids. I really try to be an 80/20 mom. Some things I am more strict about than others, such as not wearing polyester clothing and not eating processed foods, but I will cave for holidays, gatherings, & Papa George.
I do have some rules that are non-negotiable that others would see as outdated & probably iron-fisted, such as no personal smart devices until they are adults & paying for said devices on their own, but I am strong in my convictions for not allowing and unconcerned with others opinions on the matter. I grew up before devices existed and will preserve that same freedom & pure childhood joy in the mundane for my children’s minds. I have experienced the internet, there is not a whole lot of good on it. My husband & I share one cellphone between us – we are not a device family, so it isn’t unusual to our children. In fact, they find children who are sucked into their devices to be the unusual ones.
But here’s the important thing we have to remember when we focus on parenting our children’s hearts. There is only One who can transform it. And that one isn’t you. It is the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. We can Shepard our children’s hearts, but we are powerless to transform them.
How does that last sentence make you feel?
It is similar to how I feel about addiction – you cannot get sober for anyone but yourself. Not your kids. Not your spouse. Not your friends, job, or anything else. Only you. I can do my best to lead them, but I am an imperfect human & ultimately it is between them & God. I cannot live their lives for them. I cannot control their actions. I can do my best to protect their minds and hearts from the evil that is in this world, I can teach them right from wrong, and pray over them daily that they continue to be steadfast in their faith as they grow and not choose a different, darker path. But just as my values differ from my parents values, I have to be understanding to the fact that as they grown into adults, they may not share the same values that we do as parents and that is still going to be okay. God grows us in holiness through our hardships and I am well aware that in order to find your life’s purpose that God put you here on Earth for, you have to go through some hard times first. I am a strong believer in hard times create strong individuals & that you’ll never find your authentic self in easy times. I’m raising warriors who can withstand hard times with ease, knowing that God is their armor in battle. Even if or when they stumble off the path, their foundation & footing is with Jesus and through Him, I am confident they will be able to find their way back.
Let’s explore the passages that speak directly to this:



What aspects of these verses bring comfort to you as you parent?
God must draw my children in, not me. I can lead them to God, but it is only God who can call them & initiate their relationship, and it is up to them to answer. I cannot force them to live as Christians and I cannot blame myself when they do not live up to the Christ-like expectations that are set for them. I can lead by example and I can share the Word with them, but I cannot persuade them to love or live for Jesus. They have to want to answer their calling on their own free will. God knows exactly when and how that will happen in their own lives & what circumstances will fully bring them. He knows them & knows their hearts, because ultimately, they are His children before they are mine. He is watching & waiting for them to come to Him.

Who is the source and perfecter of your children’s faith? What does that mean for you for your role as their mom?
Jesus. My children are my witnesses & they will follow what they see me do. I must keep my own eyes on Jesus & they will follow. It is not my job to be perfect. I will never be, because only Jesus is. It is my job to lead them to Him. He has everything they need when they get there.
Read 1 Corinthians 3:6-7. What is our role in our children’s salvation?

To plant seeds & water them
What is God’s role?
To grow them
How do you plant and water seeds of faith in your child’s life?
We are currently following through the Kids Bible Recap daily devotional & Scripture Journals in our homeschool which we are really enjoying working through together. We pray together at meals and give thanks for our day. Our girls have been actively participating in Grace Girls at church, learning how to grow into Proverbs 31 Women for the last 4 years. They attend VBS at church each summer as well! We watch shows like Veggie Tales & Bible Adventure. We read the Bible together & talk openly about God & Jesus regularly. Trying to live as an example of Biblical Femininity.
How do these verses empower you to parent more open-handed when teaching your kids the gospel and seeking to nurture their faith?
I feel like I am already very open-handed, but they definitely empower me to remind myself that it is not my job to control their behavior, only correct it. I need to do a better job of being more disciplined in getting to my family to church on a regular weekly basis again. I had made Ukrainian школа our top priority for the past few years now, which is held the same hours as church: 9-12 on Sunday mornings. I have been putting church off for only Sundays we weren’t busy with школа, but this year школа is bi-weekly, and I need to make sure our family is at each & every service possible, without excuses.
Who began the good work?
God
How long will He continue His work?
Until it is written
Who produces righteous character in our lives?
Jesus
And this will bring much praise to our parenting or to God?
God, they are his children first.
Now read Isaiah 64:8. Who sits on the potter’s stool?

God does. I love this verse ❤️
Close With Prayer – Let’s close today by praying Psalm 139:1-5. Write your thoughts after these verses and allow God to remind you that He knows your every need.

When I read the words Psalm 139, I stopped dead in my tracks & messaged my friend, Kelly. Last weekend, we suffered a miscarriage at 7 weeks+3 days after 10 months of trying. Devastated is an understatement to how I felt, but I have no doubt that Jesus sent Kelly to me in my time of need & spoke directly through her to bring me comfort. I don’t share my vulnerability or emotions with others, but I did with Kelly, and she prayed for me, and prayed over my womb. The last thing she told me was to pray Psalm 139. I do not believe in coincidences, only synchronicities. It is for a reason that this verse has been recommended to me not just once, but twice in the same week.
God, you know me. You know my needs. You knew exactly what I needed to hear so that I could find peace & not be discouraged. You are close to the brokenhearted and right now that is me. I thank you for the comfort than only You bring, and for your protection against the enemy as you heal my body & restore my mind. Please help to heal my children’s hearts as they also grieve the sibling they looked forward to, but never got to meet, and my husband’s heart for the baby he too lost. He is not as outspoken as I, but I know he is aching privately. I thank you, Lord, for the life you blessed us with for this short time and for the confirmation that my body is still capable of carrying life inside after after being told it would never happen again – You perform miracles! We trust in your plan & perfect timing, and know that you keep your promises. Please keep my angel babies safe & loved until I get my turn to be with them. Amen.

Until next time ♡ Mama Morozov



































































































